Recording your funeral wishes

Some people prefer to plan their funeral themselves, while others would be happy to leave most of the decision-making to their loved ones.

Whichever you prefer, sharing your wishes for your funeral will take a lot of pressure off your family at an already difficult time.  It means they won’t be left second guessing or even arguing over what you’d want, leaving them to get on with making the necessary arrangements to give you the best possible send-off.

Making your wishes known

Your funeral wishes should accompany your will. Read more about how to record your wishes in your Public Trust will below. Wills are sometimes not read until after the funeral, so it’s a really good idea to give your preferences to someone else as a back-up.

There are two key aspects to your funeral. You can specify your wishes for:

  1. Your remains
  2. The funeral service.

For your remains

You may want to specify what happens to your body after you pass away, including:

  • Buried or cremated, donated for medical use
  • Viewing: the location, open or closed casket, choice of clothing, or no viewing at all
  • Coffin type: style, materials, temporary (for viewing) or permanent
  • Burial location
  • Preference for ashes: plot or scattered
  • Headstone or plaque, and associated text.

For your funeral service

Things you may want to specify for your funeral service include:

  • People to be notified and the person to notify them
  • Leading the service: funeral director, celebrant or someone else
  • Location: the funeral director’s premises, your home or somewhere else
  • Type: faith-based or nonreligious
  • Readings: eulogy, quotes, poems
  • Display: videos, photos
  • Post-funeral service proceedings.

How much does a funeral cost?

The cost of a funeral generally starts at around $4,000, but can exceed $10,000 depending on your wishes and budget. The expenses can include things such as the death registration charge, funeral director fees, and any costs associated with the casket, hearse, flowers, celebrant, cremation or burial service, and the headstone or plaque.

See more about funding your funeral below.

Your wishes in a Public Trust will

It’s good to specify your wishes for your remains and your funeral in your will.

Public Trust has three will consultation types, each offering a different level of detail depending on your preferences.

Find out more about our will consultations. Or simply give us a call on 0800 371 471 to talk through your options.